Suck, Bang, Blow: Sex Doesn't Equate to Love

Dear Black Girl,

You are always in high demand. Act like it.

We as women hold the key that unlocks the Universe. Each woman has her own key, the trick is in how you use your key. You make the rules, and you show people how to treat you. Never let your crown slip, and stop allowing just anyone to visit your queendom. In layman terms, stop giving yourself to every person you meet. Some of you have given so much of yourself away that you settle for less. You don’t even realize the love that you are worthy of. Sex doesn’t equate to love, and don’t be fooled by cum love. You know the “love” you feel until you bust a nut or until you cum. Honestly, I believe sometimes we mess up something that could be dope and beneficial by involving sex. I’m not saying engaging in sex is all bad. I’m not saying that when and how long it takes to do the “deed” determines the relationship either. My point is that either way soul ties are binding. Once, you lay down with someone, you become their equal. Stop walking around with five pieces of a puzzle of someone else. How are you looking for a better half when you aren’t even whole? Stop looking for the pieces of yourself in the men or women you sleep with. Stop settling for that false sense of security that sex offers. Anyone can open your body, but how many are aiming to open you mind? I get that sex is an essential part of any relationship; however, it’s not the only part. Sex shouldn’t be the way to your heart. I don’t care how great the sex is sis, if the vibe is trash you need to look deep into self. Some of you are so busy satisfying your sacral chakra, that your crown chakra is tilted in more ways than one. How can he touch your soul, if he can’t even tap into your mind. Getting to know you should be more than figuring out your broad likes and dislikes. Yes, we all like the finer things in life, but mental stimulation should win you over every time. You’re more than your body sis; you’re a queen worth more than things money can buy. If a man cannot acknowledged, the presence of a queen within you, then leave that man alone. Your crown might tilt or slip, but never let it fall. ❤️

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